tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-999768577625269791.post3711880414665522227..comments2011-11-15T10:34:35.472-08:00Comments on Tearing down the wall: Day 1. Relationships.Sinerishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01380423976148546429noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-999768577625269791.post-15877992196118531782011-02-01T07:06:19.260-08:002011-02-01T07:06:19.260-08:00Helpless in the idea that they tended to be almost...Helpless in the idea that they tended to be almost paralyzed if I wasn't around to listen/deal with issues/etc. And yes clingy is bad. Very bad. The more I've thought about it, the more I realize that I'm looking for someone to come home to and talk about the day, not someone who desires to drag me out every night to go hang out with her friends/family/random stranger she met at work that she will eventually replace me with(actually happened). And yes, there are days when I want to just roll the dice, pick someone and finally be rid of all the uncertainty of the dating pool. But that's a story for another day.Sinerishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01380423976148546429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-999768577625269791.post-1973786863465213132011-01-31T23:41:39.609-08:002011-01-31T23:41:39.609-08:00yeah. The relationship post was not easy for me to...yeah. The relationship post was not easy for me to write either. I worked on it for about two days before it actually went up. :-/<br /><br />But I don't think I understand. The girls you date could be considered *helpless*? How boring. I mean, I know that some guys like to be the super hero and I have no problem stroking a guy's ego every now and then but really? Helpless? I must have too much pride for that. ;)<br /><br />And I completely understand about the whole *clingy* issue. I have had ex's like that before. It's like, "Honey, I love you. But I just don't need to be around you all the time." What can I say? I am secure enough to still care about and trust someone even if they aren't right next to me 24/7.Estellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03238820218181680926noreply@blogger.com